November 3, at 4: I think my mother may be a sociopathic liar, I was looking up compulsive liar, thinking it may describe a certain behaviour that fits her own, but having read about the sociopathic liar, I feel it is more apt. It has, along with both of my parents abuse, and I have to say that dad has also been very dishonest with people, even though they call themselves christians, and will be in chapel later today, their lies and bullying, has almost led to my suicide, and my mother would stand by, and continue to lie, even if it did cost me my own life. They have both seen fit to deliberately lie to others, to give a false impression to anybody I may later talk to, paving the way, before I get to see them, my doctor, their ministers, the Farm Crisis Network, the police, they have lied to them all, with no thought for me, my reputation, or future, it all means nothing at all to them. She has also tried to hit me, and as children, she used to hit around the head so very, very, hard. They have also lied to the DWP for many years, about disability claims, I did wonder if telling those lies, have forced them to tell others, which I know it will have done, but even before any claim, as young children, mum would lie, to avoid taking responsibility for her actions, such as hitting a bus with a tractor and trailer, she just drove on, and would never admit it, even though both of us, her children, were riding on the top of the load, and told her what had happened. Abuse and violence is what awaits her family, whilst the most extreme charm is reserved for others, dad is exactly the same in that way, the most bizarre charm is reserved for others, and falling over themselves to help others, whilst he puts his own family through the most terrifying hell. Unfortunately, they are able to find people within their church, who like their charm, and encourage them. I found out a few years ago, that my sister had felt suicidal because of our childhood, and she sought counselling. I have asked my parents to stop lying about me, and think about what they are doing to my life, my work, my reputation, and relationships, but you just get yet another lie thrown at you for doing so, she makes up events, and false situations, and will not admit the things she has said to others, or even written, even challenged with the letters, letters she said were never written, and suggested I was making up in my mind.

Sociopaths Hate Us

It is a great description of dysfunctional behavior in a woman, so it is reproduced here in order to help others. Fly received responses responses to his email from the woman, which are reproduced below. He read the emails but did not respond I am a 60 year old male who was living with a 50 year old female for three years. I had known her for two years before. I wrote a letter to my Ex-girlfriend a few days after I left.

I had said to myself enough is enough after one of her quick insulting outbursts.

Rachel, the fact that you are consciously aware of your cheating and lying, combined with the fact that you feel remorse about it are positive signs that you can heal from these things to become an honest, trustworthy person.

Here we will look at what the term sociopath entails, whether it is indeed distinct from psychopathy, and whether Holmes was right to diagnose himself as one. Qualities of a Sociopath Someone who is described as a sociopath will have several traits that set them apart from those with no personality disorders. These include animal cruelty pulling the wings off of flies etc, bed wetting, and pyromania an obsession with fire setting.

Sociopaths of course vary in their symptoms and might act differently in different cases. However their main trait is presenting themselves as having the same empathy feelings and emotions as others when in fact they lack this emotional capacity. They are thus cold and manipulative and rarely see any problem with their actions. As they grow older they are likely to be highly successful which is a result of their willingness to get one over on their competition and colleagues, a desire and belief in success, and lack of risk aversion.

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November 23, at I am frustrated by how society paints us: At least this is the view of a diagnosed sociopath who is trying to live in the civilized world. I have morals, just not like those of most other people. Laws are suggestions not absolutes. Some are realistic, others are not.

Download from Amazon Today. The answer, from the mouth of a narcissist/sociopath: Not being guided by a ‘moral compass’ means that judgments of good vs. bad and rights vs. wrong are determined using a different mechanism. Psychopaths (narcissists and sociopaths) know the difference between right and wrong because they understand cause and effect.

This story originally appeared July 3, On a recent summer Sunday in inner-city Boston, Odin Lloyd dreamed about his future. He was at a cookout with Darryl Hodge, a friend he was so close to they called each other the Wolf Pack, a man who, like Lloyd, had boyhood hopes of playing in the NFL. But now here they were, years later, playing semipro football in empty old stadiums with beat-up bodies and paycheck-to-paycheck jobs.

Imagine, Lloyd told his friend, what life would be like if they could wake up every day doing something they loved. If they had the money to take care of everybody — family, friends — and fly anywhere they wanted on a vacation. We should be living like that. But Lloyd was 27 years old and starting to think about these things, most likely because he was hanging out with New England Patriots tight end Aaron Hernandez. His relationship with Hernandez had given Lloyd a glimpse of the life he’d dreamed of.

Not only was Hernandez playing football for money — for millions — he was on the team Lloyd loved. Hernandez used to get him tickets to Patriots games. Hernandez had promised Lloyd he’d fly him to California for a vacation. You’ve got to see Cali, he told him. Lloyd, who was working at a landscaping company, had never been there, Hodge said.

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November 12th, Leave a comment Go to comments What is the one thing a sociopath does not want other people to know? More specifically, sociopaths do not want the truth about them to be known as they are insecure, malicious, and devious people. Beyond being embarrassed by the truth of their behaviors and thoughts, they have a deathly fear of being exposed and rejected. If others were to know about their true nature, they realize that most would want nothing to do with them.

They would lose the support networks of malicious minions they control and incite to abuse other people.

So why do guys suddenly lose interest? Is it really out of the blue without cause or provocation? No, there is a reason. The reason it’s so hard to pinpoint and articulate is because it’s extremely subtle.

His mother and I had been together for a little over a year when she got pregnant, I was working at a pizza place when he was born. I remember the first time I saw him, he had big blue eyes and looked a lot like his mother; I loved him from the first time I saw him. I told myself I was going to do whatever it takes to bring him happiness. The first three months were wonderful, I was learning how to be a father and spent a lot of time with him.

Then times got rough, money was a problem, and my relationship with his mother was a disaster. We fought a lot, screamed; I regret those screams. She developed a painkiller addiction after an operation and there was a constant malaise when we were together. She wasn’t the same. I tried to help her, but she wouldn’t let me. A week after his first birthday, I found out that his mother had been cheating on me.

There was no reconciliation possible, it was broken.

5 Different Types of Liars

Sociopathic tendencies or full-blown sociopath? What does it mean to say that someone has sociopathic tendencies, versus full-blown sociopathy, and does the difference even matter? The simple answer is that someone with sociopathic tendencies will exhibit sociopathic behaviors and attitudes sometimes, while elsewhere he may seem to possess and, in fact, may possess a somewhat genuine if limited and unreliable capacity and desire to respect others.

There are sociopaths in our midst. Some of them are high-functioning sociopaths. High-functioning or not, all lack empathy. All are antisocial; they ignore the rules and laws of society so they can live by their own norms. Cold, callus, and calculating, they stop at nothing to get what they want.

You will find that they have been the victims of many situations if not all. They are quick to become angry at the most tiny sign of disrespect whether real or not. They do not give without reason. They have an agenda. Social attack is what they can and will do especially if she is a woman. They will call you night and day to tell you what crap you are.

They will demand apologies. They will post your name on the internet – call your boss or try to hack your computer or social website. They will go after your relationships and your name and livelihood. They want you to feel as low as they feel about themselves and worse. They will try to hurt you psychologically, emotionally and spiritually. They like revenge and they are proud of the revenge they have enacted on others.

It is their will to power. Literally 70 percent of the people I know are sociopaths.

What are Narcissists & Sociopaths REALLY thinking? (Part 3/3)

Let me make this simple for you… Guys want to capture a prize. And yeah, of course, guys want sex, so if you think that sex is the only bargaining chip you have then you will always feel paranoid about men using you. Think about it — do you honestly think that men choose a woman for their one exclusive relationship just for sex?

Editor’s note: A Lovefraud reader who calls himself “Fly” posted the following comment on August 7, It is a great description of dysfunctional behavior in a .

Lying can be devastating. Not only does it hurt the one who is being lied to, but it also hurts the one lying. Here are 5 of them. Sociopathic Liars Sociopaths are defined as someone who lies continuously in an attempt to get their own way, without showing care or concern for others. These individuals are goal-oriented. Even though it might seem hard to believe, lying is focused — they are focused on getting their own way.

They tend to be charismatic and charming, but they will use their exceptional social skills in a self-centered and manipulative manner. Compulsive Liars Compulsive liars are defined as someone who continually lies from sheer habit.

Parents Of Sociopaths Share How They Really Feel About Their Offspring

Sunday, December 4, Do sociopaths know they are sociopaths? This is a question I have been getting a lot recently. The short answer is yes, sociopaths are generally aware that they are sociopaths. This is one of the differences between sociopaths and narcissists.

Withholding Affection is a narcissistic abuse tactic. It is a wholly different abuse strategy employed mindfully and deliberately by Cluster B people against their targeted victims than ghosting or stonewalling (meaning to refuse to engage in any meaningful dialog or to refusal to listen with any social or.

In love with someone who hurt me. Convinced myself that I could make things better. Stayed on my best behavior. Given myself pep talks about why I deserve more. Reached out to other people for help. Tried drinking until I was numb. Losing pieces of myself. Like grains of sand falling through an hourglass. Counting down until I was completely empty and numb. Maybe this is as good as it gets. And the only things worse than leaving is to stay. I know how hard those nights are.

The ones spent staring at the numbers on the clock as they change, one by one, second by second through the night. I know the painful mornings.

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